Wow I was in a really horrible mood when I recorded this video huh! Challenging times happen to the best of us, and to the best parts of us. It’s okay to feel sad or frustrated or whatever negative emotion from time to time, as long as you’re not feeling it a lot then it’s all good. More in the video about my miserable mood…
Fran
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[..YouTube..] Shielding or isolating your aura will help.
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Shielding or isolating your aura will help.
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[..YouTube..] Take care Fran! With your relational qualities, you may also handle all this much better when it actually happen than what you’re expecting now. Back to the ever-smiling Fran on next vid!
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Take care Fran! With your relational qualities, you may also handle all this much better when it actually happen than what you’re expecting now. Back to the ever-smiling Fran on next vid!
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i love this – something i am seriously struggling with at the moment also – integrating my new self into old people … old friends it is easy as you say they just drop off as i am on a different vibration now..but family… not so easy and something i am struggling with every day. i would love to hear your advice for how to find that balance and congruency – by maintaining your truth & true self but also still being their ‘daughter’!? good luck hun i understand completely what you are going through xx
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Fully relate, beautiful ♥ I’m also experiencing a very challenging time and finding it tough to actually tough it out in Australia. My old life has changed so much but I’m in the same environment. I desperately want to leave OZ for awhile and reconnect with who I am away from all this shitty, fucked up year of 2012.
I’m working on being somewhere OS by this time next year – it’s a short time but also a long time when my soul is screaming to get out. Let’s see what unfolds.
I love your honesty and your courage to do a vid when you’re not feeling uber happy. Strong people reach out in times of trouble so big hugs beautiful soul for stepping into your truth.
Cyber hugs from BrisVegas – I hope to get to Pisac soon and catch up with you and give you a hug in real time X
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I know it’s “western”, and not at all esoteric, but have you ever considered psychoanalysis. I say that because you use the words “old” you and “new” you… and you also say that your parents are your “blood parents”, as though there were no big emotional bond (which is impossible, no matter how far away you live).
It’s none of my business at all, and I think you’re already very brave going through so many transformations and looking into yourself to find answers. Not that it’s a necessity to be close to one’s parents or anything, but in the end as you say, they are your blood, which means that no matter where you travel (or how far away from them you get geographically), they will always be in you and with you (I’m currently learning to accept my own family, which is why I’m saying all this).
I used to believe I had an “old” and “new” self too. But I’m beginning to see that in fact it’s all one big cycle. We’re the same person, we just evolve as we travel through life…
Anyway, thanks again for being so honest :-)
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[..YouTube..] no one has to be “ever smiling”. i’m happy if u are, but no need to/no must.
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no one has to be “ever smiling”. i’m happy if u are, but no need to/no must.
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Beedie.. mmm :) thank you for your comment. Ya know, I saw various counselors and psychologist from when I was something like 17 years old.. on and off probably for about 10 years.. and for me there seems to be a limit to the amount that I can talk about stuff. I need to SHIFT the ENERGY to make a permanent change. Personally the awareness and mental knowledge can only go so far… and I say personally because I know it’s different for everyone. And sure, while I was going down that path I fit in better with my family but that was because I hadn’t changed a lot and also because I hadn’t stepped into my power so was still going along with their flow, not my own.. it was only in the last few years after I made MASSIVE changes energetically to all parts of my being that these kind of struggle comes up. Keep in mind that I’m in my own space right now.. when I go into theirs this doesn’t happen. Also my intuition in the last couple of months has double, tripled even so I’m triple the empath that I was before. My parents are holding a lot of strong sadness and a bunch of other not awesome emotions (bless them) and it is MY job not to take those on but I’m still learning how to completely control that ability. . …
Thank you so much for your comment, I really love points of view from all modalities and everyone in our High on Health family :) .. because your preferred method will resonate well with somebody else x
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[..YouTube..] Thanks for the lesson master Yoda! But I prefer when you stick to teaching me how to make fireballs and such, I still like my private conversations to remain so, even when they take place within other people’s hearing distance.
“ever smiling, no one has to be?” hmmm hmmmm
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Thanks for the lesson master Yoda! But I prefer when you stick to teaching me how to make fireballs and such, I still like my private conversations to remain so, even when they take place within other people’s hearing distance.
“ever smiling, no one has to be?” hmmm hmmmm
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I hope you have tried to communicate how their presence impacts you–maybe they are not aware of the anxiety they seem to cause. It is strange how this video seems to capture you in the more submissive role of ‘daughter’, your confident, powerful self seems to be stifled. Suffocated. It can be very disappointing when parents or other loved ones only seem to be really accepting and supportive when their desires are being met and they are left unchallenged… they do not have to agree with your path, but hopefully they can learn to support you unconditionally…
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[..YouTube..] I know how you feel, I feel the same when I go back home and after just a few days I feel out of balance or just like an old me a little and itch to go back to my expansion. It is all good, just ignore the vibe and focus on the positive and what you want to see. Blessings.
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I know how you feel, I feel the same when I go back home and after just a few days I feel out of balance or just like an old me a little and itch to go back to my expansion. It is all good, just ignore the vibe and focus on the positive and what you want to see. Blessings.
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Fran, I recently moved back in with my parents so that I could save money to travel. I can totally relate to this! Sometimes I feel like my parents have no idea where I came from and I can’t understand how I came from them. Also, a lot of my teenage negative energy seems to resurface being in this environment. I’m just trying my best to stay grounded. Also, like you said, our parents aren’t going anywhere. They are well intentioned people who do love me and I have to try my best to accept our new relationship for what it is. Mostly I just came here to say… I feel ya! Best of luck while they are in Peru! -Amanda
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Hi Fran, beautiful scenery in this video.
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OMG this is post is turning into a counseling session for me! It’s hilarious!!! Tina- I hear ya sister. You know what, this is all going a lot deeper than what I first thought. In fact it’s a web of challenges and amazing insights. What has come out of this is I’m changing big time now and I can’t supress it because energetically THAT makes me depressed.. so I’m learning to be my authentic self and change and grow and expand in the presence of my blood parents who are extremely different to me. Interesting times!!!
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[..YouTube..] i feel you all the way, your not alone. we have to stop and think…….
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i feel you all the way, your not alone. we have to stop and think…….
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I found this very interesting and it’s about the transformation that so many people are experiencing, and that we see the Earth is going through.. it may be coming from the Sun :)
http://carliniinstitute.com/how_recent_solar_flares_are_affecting_us
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Ah, I see. Yes, psychoanalysis can help pinpoint issues, but I agree, it doesn’t necessarily offer any suggestions to help shift the negative energy. In that sense, no, it isn’t applicable to everybody, and if you’re already aware of which aspects of your life need healing, it might not be very helpful to go down that path. :-)
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