Why Mindset Is The Most Important Part Of Any Clear Skin Eating Plan

girl eating sushiOver the last couple of weeks I’ve been talking to and interviewing a lot of people who’ve managed to clear their acne holistically. The one element that remains the same with each one of these interviews so far has been a change in diet, which has made me realize even more so how important diet is for clearing acne holistically.

However, the one thing I’m always wary of when giving any kind of diet advice for the skin, is how healthy your relationship is to the food you consume. The last thing I want is for you to develop a feeling of guilt or a problem with eating certain foods. Personally, I’ve been there and it’s not a good situation to be in. Feeling bad about eating one of the foods you “shouldn’t be eating” is worse than eating the food itself. So I’d rather you eat it and enjoy the experience with no guilt or negative feelings whatsoever.

Probably the best example of what not to do is my own personal story. About a year and a half ago I took my macbook for an outing to do some work in a cafe. I was hungry so wanted to order off the menu but there was nothing on there that was okay to eat according to the strict clear skin diet that I was following. But I was starving so ordered some plain wheat bread toast and felt guilty the whole time I was eating it, then even more guilty after I’d eaten it. Looking back on it now I realize that I had a very unhealthy relationship with food. I hate to admit it but this mindset that I was holding back then doesn’t seem too dissimilar to an eating disorder.

I can’t stress enough to you how important it is to never feel guilty about anything, especially not about the food you’ve just eaten.

The mind/body connection

chickenI had a very interesting conversation with my Chinese herbalist recently. He was talking to me about being vegetarian, and how vegans and vegetarians can sometimes develop an intolerance to animal products simply through mindset. An unhealthy vegetarian for example who’s say low in Vitamin B12 and Iron still feels strongly in their mind about not consuming meat. Yet their body craves the nutrients found in the animal products. This results in your body and mind disagreeing with each other, and therefore a possible physical negative reaction much like a food allergy if the animal products are actually consumed.

I’m certain this reaction can happen with any food. So if you truly and strongly believe that if you eat a block of chocolate then you will get an acne breakout, then you know what? You’ll probably actually get one. Because you’ve created the mindset where your think this food is the cause of your problem skin. Now I’m not saying that food allergies or intolerances are untrue, I still believe that food intolerances are one of the leading causes of acne. I’m just saying that if you create the mindset where you have a strong belief that certain foods, even those that you are not allergic or intolerant to, will give you acne once you’ve eaten it, then it’s likely going to happen.

But in reality if you’re eating a relatively healthy wholefoods diet most of the time, then eating the odd slice of white wheat bread, brownie, wedge of cheese or whatever your comfort food is, then you’re very unlikely to experience any kind of breakout for just consuming that food the one off time. Of course if you have a dairy intolerance and you eat an entire two liter tub of ice cream then perhaps this will cause a problem for you, but that’s a completely different scenario and yes you may get an acne breakout from that. And of course if you eat junk foods and inflammatory foods most of the time then your skin is going to show it too. But as I said, these are completely different scenarios to what we’re trying to achieve.

Probably the most important thing to remember is to be as confident and happy within yourself as you can be, and to feel good and positive about the personal choices that you make. After the meditation retreat I was recently on I made a choice as I was leaving Byron Bay to stop into one of my favorite cafes and order a big chunk of banana cake with chocolate sauce and cream. Definitely not something I eat every day, or even every week ..but wow did I enjoy it while I was eating it and the memory of that meal experience still puts a smile on my face :) Oh and no, I did not get an acne breakout from eating it either, and I’m CERTAIN that’s because I didn’t believe it would break me out and I don’t eat like that every single day.

So my point out of all of this rambling is to emphasize three things-

  1. It’s important to eat well most of the time. Your body IS a temple and you MUST nurture it with good nutritious organic foods.
  2. Don’t feel as though you have to be on a extraordinarily strict diet to clear your skin. Sometimes following the rule “everything in moderation” can lead to a happier and less stressful existence which will in itself improve and clear your skin.
  3. Mindset – the mind/body relationship you have to the food you eat is often the most important thing. Learn to cook with love, eat when you’re happy and feel good about what you’re eating (even the naughty stuff). Your positive frame of mind will work wonders for your skin.
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6 responses ↓

#1 Vin | NaturalBias.com on 06.04.09 at 1:17 am

Hi Fran, great article! Our thoughts affect our health in so many ways that it should be no surprise that they can affect our skin as well.

As you suggested, I think it’s important for most people to embrace “treat” foods in moderation. It’s a source of enjoyment, even if only temporary, and takes a little pressure off of being perfect. However, some people have a much lower tolerance and have to be more selective. For example, just a trace of gluten can damage the intestines of someone with celiac disease. Personally, I know that if I eat gluten, I’ll end up depressed and tired for several days and it’s simply not worth it (not to mention the physical internal damage that’s probably occurring as well.

#2 kevin on 06.04.09 at 8:23 am

Totally agree, alot of readers from this site (from what I see in the forum) feel too guilty about eating the odd piece of chocolate here and there. Right now I’m on a break from eating healthy and I’m pigging out on hazelnut chocolate and you know what……………….my skin is actually doing really good. No big breakouts or anything.So the mind does have a lot to do with not only how you see treating yourself but also with how bad you determine your acne.

I have the tendency, as would much acne sufferers, to thin that we have extremely bad skin, when in reality that’s what we say to our minds and as a result really does make us see our skin much worse than it is. So the best thing we can do is just relax!

#3 Kyle on 06.04.09 at 12:23 pm

I really needed this post, actually, so thanks!

Of course, you might not get a breakout right away from eating unhealthy, but I totally agree that your mindset would give you a breakout. I read that if a person eats too much sugar just once, then his/her body remembers it for two weeks! Anyways, good post! :)

#4 Renee on 06.07.09 at 10:07 pm

Wow Fran, it’s funny cause I’ve been feeling guilty this whole weekend about a few chocolate chip cookies I ate 3 days ago. Even while I was eating them, my skin was doing comparably amazing, and I thought “I can’t believe i’m eating this! I’m gonna get a big break out!” and I did! And everytime I think about my breakout, I feel so guilty about eating the cookies and totally regret it. But reading your article is sooo enlightening. Recently, i’ve been working so hard to clear my skin, that I haven’t been having a happy relationship with food. Maybe I should start by having a bite of that dark mint chocolate i’ve been craving for 2 weeks ! WEEEEEeeeee and enjoy it ! Cheers!

#5 taney on 07.16.09 at 4:04 am

Great article! I totally agree with you on mindset affecting your health. It all goes hand in hand if you ask me. Mind over matter! If you keep thinking about it, then there’s a high chance that it will manifest. In my opinion, I think it’s more mental than physical. You could be eating the best way you can, but not having the right mindset in life with constant stress and worry and still be worse off than the typical American that’s happy and carefree. Great read! Keep up the good work! (=

#6 Tracy on 06.24.10 at 1:41 pm

Fran, I love you. You write the best articles. I’ve just recently read all your posts about mind over acne stuff, and it’s exactly what I needed. I’ve fervently been getting healthy the last three months (through strict diet, more exercise, sunshine, sleep etc) to get over my sudden onset severe acne and my face has made leaps and bounds… but I can tell my mind is the weak link! It’s working against me! I have the fear!! If I eat something bad, ‘forget’ to exercise, don’t get 8 hours of sleep, drink the tap water…. I fear the worst. It’s unhealthy and i know it.

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